THURSDAY 1ST NOVEMBER
Aegean went to Diversity with M. I wasn't able to go as I don't have many holidays left. He fell asleep in the back room. That could be a sign of getting older don't you think. :)))

FRIDAY 2ND NOVEMBER
I worked a nightshift and then drove down to pervyland and my Dommy fiance. We were going to Revelations and set off early to help set things up. I did my usual job of setting out the aromatherapy candles. I think I prefer Revelations to rapture as it is more intimate. Everyone is so pleased for us about our engagement. Big D and little d were there. It seemed like ages sice I last saw them. There are more people coming to the club now which makes it harder to find somewhere to play. The chair always seems to be free though so I ended up over Aegeans knee twice. I never know what to expect now when he spanks me as he changes his technique nearly every time. He had the Singapore cane with him and seems to think it is fun to use it in time to the music. It was another good night. We had to stop in a layby on the way home because Aegean was getting too sleepy to drive. It was 6am by the time we got home.

SATURDAY 3RD NOVEMBER
We decided not to go to the Manchester Community munch in Manchester because we had been so late getting home. We went to the party at night. There were lots of hugs and congratulations.

They had a raffle to get funds for the Community. Aegean 's ticket was drawn and he picked the metal gallows made by Masterpiece which will go fine in the dungeon when it is ready. I had put stockings on as it was cold and was to put my white socks on when I got there. Aegean had to tell me to put them on so I did on top of my stockings.

I am sure he didn't tell me to take the stockings off. I thought I had got away with it but I was spied as I came out of the loo. That earned me 3 whacks with the cane on a cold bottom. That hurts. Big Bad Dom. We went home before the end as we were still tired. Not that tired though as I recall. :))

SUNDAY 4TH NOVEMBER
I woke Aegean up in his favourite way *S* and one of mine. We were supposed to go shopping but never quite made it. We had better things to do. That whippy cane was on the go again. I haven't decided how much I like it yet. LOL . We went for lunch to a country pub we had been to before and liked very much. I should have been going back on Sunday in time to start nightshift but I was too poorly so I went back on Monday with another taste of that whippy cane to keep Aegean happy. He thinks it is keeping me happy. Well maybe it is :))

MONDAY 5TH NOVEMBER
It will be 3 weeks before we see each other again.:(((((. This is going to be very hard to bear. I don't think we have been that long apart since we met. I am going to Amsterdam and the Wastelands club on Saturday with big D and little d. This trip was booked months ago before I really knew Aegean so I will be going by myself. The following weekend I will be babysitting. The weekend after that is when Aegean is coming up to me to meet the Outlaws. The poor love. *S*.

SATURDAY 10TH NOVEMBER
Today was the trip to Amsterdam. I can't muster up any enthusiasm for it as I don't want to go without Aegean. It doesn't seem right going to places like this without him. I got a lift to the airport with big D and little d. We got there with very little time to spare.

Big D likes to cut things a bit fine. Little d and I were totally stressed out by the time we got there. I still hadn't got any currency when we boarded as I didn't have time . We landed at Schipol about 6pm. It seemed to take forever to get to the terminal after landing and forever to get to baggage reclaim. There were buses going to and from the venue all night but we couldn't find out where so we went to an internet cafe and found out on the wasteland website.

By this time it was after 10pm and we had been traipsing about for ages. My feet were killing me and I felt more like going to bed than an all night club. We met two people we knew waiting for the bus. R from Aberdeen and SK who goes to the Manchester parties. We eventually got to the venue and waited for ages in a long queue. We didn't have tickets as they had gone missing and we had bbeen given a reference number. So had SK.

They wouldn't accept this and sent us to another door. They wouldn't let us in there either!! They wanted us to pay again and reclaim the money. By this time little d and I were ready for finding a hotel. We had been given someone's name when we booked and eventually he arrived and sorted it all out. We had to change in the entrance hall as there was nowhere else to go.

To get in we had to pass an inspection by females called door bitches. They told little d that next time she had to wear rubber or leather . She was wearing a cloth basque. SK had to take his dress off. The noise was unbelievable it was soooo loud . There were hundreds of people there. We explored the place first. it was very big and dived into lots of rooms. Some were very dark. I couldn't see what was going on in them.

Everyone just seemd to be standing about. We found the dungeon where it was a lot quieter. This was not up to Roissy standard. I felt there should be water dripping down the walls. Actually there was but it was condensation. LOL. Someone ran their hand across my bum. I assumed by accident but later on the same guy did it again and I glared at him. The third time he did it I told him to keep his bloody hands to himself.

He then started doing it to little d who grabbed his hand and twisted it until he yelled. No more bother from that creep. We went back to the Dungeon for a play. Big D tied us both to the web and blindfolded us and then flogged us so we didn't know when it was coming. There wasn't a great deal of S&M going on. Most of the equipment seemed to be used for bonking on. There were lots of spectators for that. I am not really a voyear where that is concerned. It seemed to be a meeting of the beautiful people . Some of the outfits were terrific. I think little d an! d I were the fattest there.

Big D went through to watch the stages shows. They seemed really good but little d and I spent most of the night just sitting watching everyone go by. I just kept wishing I was with Aegean. He would have absolutely hated it. The noise would have floored him. LOL. I will never go to anything without him again.

We left about 7am and got the bus back into Amsterdam. We found a baker's shop, come cafe, open and had breakfast. We hadn't booked a hotel so we went back to the all-night internet cafe and stayed ther for a few hours. Then we went down to the redlight district for while. It was fascinating for a while but once you have seen one sex shop you have seen them all - LOL.

By this time we were totally done in so we headed for a pub and stayed there until it was time to head for the airport. I got back home about 12.15am. I phoned Aegean to let him know I was home safe and sound. It was good to hear his voice. *S*

FRIDAY 16TH NOVEMBER
Another weekend looms without Aegean. No Aegean so no spankings,no subby kebabs and no huggles :(((.

I am feeling very down and stressed out. There was more bad news at work with more redundancies. Mind you it might turn out to be good as far as I am concerned.

Aegean was going to Rapture tonight. I was babysitting with 4 of my grandkids. Fortunately they were fine. I got home about 11.30pm. I normally go online but I didn't feel like chatting tonight so I went to bed.

SATURDAY 17TH NOVEMBER
I went into work some overtime. This is the first time for months as I am normally away down to Aegean's and I wish I was this weekend though it is good to spend some time with the grandkids.

I phoned Aegean before setting out to babysit. He told me he had spanked little d at Rapture and she was eternally grateful LOL. She would be, the tart!.

Someone introduced a sub looking for a Dom to Aegean. I was confused as to why when they know he has all the subby he can cope with just now and for always. I still have a lot of learning ahead of me *S*. Aegean will be well occupied with that I am sure :)))

He introduced her to another Dom who happily was free. Felt totally down hearing about Rapture just wishing I had been there. Never mind I will make up for over the next few weeks.

The kids were hyper which didn't help the way I was feeling. Thankgoodness for George of the Jungle LOL.

Aegean was off to Satin and Steel tonight. I got home at 11.30 again and just fell into bed exhausted. Thank goodness it is Sunday tomorrow.

TUESDAY 22ND NOVEMBER

Aegean's mate Master M is in hospital with a heart attack. I hope he is going to be ok. Aegean spent some time at the hospital with him.

 

WEDNESDAY 23RD NOVEMBER
Aegean picked P up as he was going to stay and do the attic while Aegean was up seeing me. They spend as much time blethering I think as they do working. Les Dawson and Roy Barraclough come to mind. lolol

 

THURSDAY 24TH NOVEMBER

Aegean arrived just after 8pm and caught me on the hop. He phoned to say where he was and as far as I was concerned I had plenty of time to chage into me school stuff. I bet that is a surprise :).

 

I was only half ready when I heard him announcing his arrival. I am sure he must have broken the sound barrier getting here. I had homemade soup ready for us but needless to say we had to get our priorities right so I was over his knee toute suite. :))))

 

I guess I will have to clear some of my spanky bank this weekend. I have 4 minutes with the whippy cane (not all at once I hope), a spanking and 6 of the cane. Oh dear the pain I have to suffer. :))))).

 

We had an early night for lots of cuddles. We haven't half missed them over the last few weeks.

 

FRIDAY NOVEMBER 23RD

I went into work for 6am and left Aegean asleep. I hate having to leave him in a nice cosy bed to go to work. I got home about 1.30pm. There was no sign of life. The big lazy Dom was still abed I thought - but he wasn't I realised as he jumped out from behind the living room door and scared the living daylights out of me. The big bad Dom.

Tonight we were going out for dinner to A and D's. We were going into Edinburgh in the afternoon to look for an engagement ring. First we went for a bar lunch to the pub near where I live. The weather was pretty dreich. {A most expressive Scottish phrase for dank and dreary - Aegean}

Once in Edinburgh we looked in some jewellers but they were the chain store type and the rings are all much the same. I wanted something a bit different. We found a small antique shop along Rose street. The assistant was excellent. She showed us a lot of rings. All that bit different. Then she showed me one she said I would like. It was perfect. I loved it the minute i put it on but I still kept trying the other ones on as it was a bit over budget. She proved to be an excellent sales woman though and Aegean bought it for me.

 

We came out the shop feeling very satisfied and happy. Aegean found it hard to walk minus a leg. LOL

 

We were walking along G street and I happened to point out the shop where I had bought my school skirts. That was a mistake as we were in the shop in a flash. Aegean bought me a new style games skirt in navy. That assistant knew fine it was for me I am sure. It was now getting late so we headed off to A and D's for dinner.

 

We were late as I had forgotten to allow for the rush hour traffic. It was good to see them again as as it had been a while since we had seen them. After dinner D produced a bottle of champagne. I think I drank most of it which loosened my tongue a bit. This forced me to be cheeky to Aegean and D.

 

Aegean made me go and get my school skirt and change into it. Being cheeky earned me a spanking from both of them. Plus D gave me a whacking with a wooden spoon which A had rushed upstairs to get for him. Treacherous subby! It didn't hurt that much anyway :P.

 

What with my early rise and the drink I ended up falling asleep :((

 

D took photos of me. I dread seeing them. It was a lovely evening and we both enjoyed their company very much. I will return the compliment before I go south for good.

 

SATURDAY 24TH NOVEMBER

We got up late and had a cooked brunch. Aegean gave me 12 strokes of the cane but I can't remember what I did to deserve them. Oops. I was left with a nice row of stripes which lasted for a while. We went up the town as he had to get a haircut before meeting the outlaws. He bought himself a nice watch. Armani no less. Just for wearing out somewhere special as he bought a new strap for his cheap one.

 

I took him to a gents hairdressers and we had to wade through his shorn hair to get out of the shop. It looks much better with it short I suppose. Not so good to run my hand through though. Back home I got a dose of the whippy cane bent over the end of the settee. It doesn't half sting. I can't have much left in my spanky bank.

We went to a nice hotel in the village along the road to meet my family. It went very well. He scored with my mother as she thinks he is lovely. :)) ( hands off mother! )

 

We went home with a sense of relief that it had gone so well as we had both been rather dreading it. Then it was straight to bed for lots of cuddles etc etc.

 

SUNDAY 25TH NOVEMBER

Another late rise for us but not necessarily awake late. :)) While still in bed Aegean dragged me over his knee and gave me another dose with the whippy cane. That thing is going in the bucket!. A whole minute too and that is a long time. I still have another 90 seconds to get.

 

I gave him a nice tantric massage though I am not sure he desrved it after using that whippy cane on me. We eventually got up and I made us another cooked breakfast. I will have to watch or you will see his belly coming round the corner first. ha ha.

 

Aegean decided I should get the 6 strokes of the cane from my spanky bank. He made me stand in the middle of the room and touch my toes and gave me them on the bare. ouch!!!!!!

 

We went to meet more of my family as they hadn't been able to come to the bar supper. He met my nephew. Enough said. lol. I had to go into work for 10pm but we managed a cuddling session before I went. I hated having to go and leave him. It was a long night.

MONDAY 26TH NOVEMBER

I got home about 6.30am. It had been really cold all night at work and I was like an icicle. Aegean wasn't though. WEG.

 

He was as warm as toast. Not for long though after I wrapped my freezing body round him. I slept for a few hours and then it was time for Aegean to go home. :((

 

He set off about 2pm. He phoned me about 8.15pm so he made good time. I really miss him.

 

FRIDAY 30TH NOVEMBER

I finished nightshift about 4am and headed south. P was still there doing the attic. We managed a little play and cuddle etc. while he was banging about. LOL. We took P home later that evening.